During your divorce, the best way to arrive at a parenting plan that is appropriate for the unique needs of your family is to figure it out in cooperation with your ex. You are the ones who know your children best. You know your scheduling complications and the dynamics of your family. Ideally, you and your ex will be able to find a time and place with no interruptions and hammer out a plan that works for everyone for the long haul.
You have worked hard for years, and because of your professional position, you deserve a retirement pension. This benefit may have made you feel accomplished and secure in knowing that you will have the needed funds to handle your financial affairs when it comes time to retire. However, more recently, you may have begun feeling less secure about your finances due to your pending divorce.